Chances are we all have a Generator close to our hearts. After all, they make up a third of the population and are the engine of the world. Without them, Projectors would have no one to guide, and Manifestors would have no one to respond to their initiating force. Everything we see around us carries the mark of one or more Generators.
Generators are characterized by their seemingly endless energy and natural glow when they are doing something that motivates them. With their enveloping aura, Generators are like the mothers of the world who, after a long day of work, still go on with a smile to read a bedtime story to their children. They move with the energy of the Sacral center, a motor as magical as it is primal. What an aligned Generator desires is always what is right because it is always what is right for themselves.
For a Generator, life is an endless dance of energy exchanges: the Universe gives, Generators receive and give back even more, and the Universe returns the favor. It is in this waltz of light that Generators should move. They are genuine bon vivants, whose life purpose is to enjoy life to the fullest.
However, there are too many Generators contradicting their Sacral center and doing what others want or what society expects from them, stretching beyond their capacities. Quickly, their light goes out and their sparkling magnetism fades.
It is urgent to save Generators from this misalignment. If we lose their light, we lose the force of work and material execution. Humanity depends on them.
If you love a Generator, here are 5 tips to make them feel loved and help them stay on their bright path.
1. Respect and Honor Your Generator’s Nos
When faced with a request, a Generator who responds with their Sacral center, often even through murmurs, gives the most genuine answer possible. Generators should not respond with their mind, analyzing pros and cons, nor should they do things to please others or because it looks good. If your Generator answers you with a “No!”, respect it and don’t insist.
Understand that if their answer is not “Yes!”, then it is “No!”. A “Maybe,” a “More or less,” or a “Perhaps…” are all “No!”. Give them space to say no without guilt or expectations. The outside world already does that enough to your Generator. If you respect all the Nos, you can be sure the Yeses are definitive, come from the right place, and will create great flow for both of you.
2. Ignite Your Generator’s Flame
All Generators have things they love doing that make hours feel like seconds. When a Generator is enchanted with something, everything flows for them and around them. It’s this energy that Generators create that will then bring more and more opportunities for them to use their energy.
If your Generator has an activity that makes them feel like flying, try to give them ample opportunities to ignite their flame. This can be by creating these opportunities yourself or by giving them space (and time!) to pursue what lights them up inside.
3. Use Simple Questions With Your Generator
The Sacral center responds to “Yes or No?” or “This or That?” questions. When questions are open-ended, the Sacral has no way to answer because it works instinctively. If you don’t present your options to your Generator, they will leave the Sacral to try to answer with their mind, and that is not the genuine way a Generator operates.
Generators love responding to immediate and binary questions like “Do you want to go to the movies or the beach?” or “Do you want sushi or pizza delivered?” Questions such as “Where would you like to go this weekend?” won’t make things easier for your Generator; on the contrary, they will frustrate them because they don’t have the power to initiate nor does the Sacral respond to long-term questions.
4. Channel Your Generator’s Energy to the Right Places
Although it is said that Generator energy is infinite, this only applies when Generators are doing what truly lights them up. Because of the great energy they show even when not doing something satisfying, other Energy Types tend to ignore whether a Generator is overloaded. And as we know well, an overloaded Generator blows a fuse and everyone is left in the dark. Watch your Generator and see where in their life you can help lighten the load so they can dedicate their energy to what truly brings them satisfaction.
If your Generator starts showing signs of tiredness, it is quite possible that they have already disconnected enough from their Sacral to no longer hear their body’s signals asking them to say no. If so, your Generator will not react well to direct proposals for rest, as they will feel attacked and weakened. Remember, the Sacral is meant to always be on, but only connected to the right energy. Offer your Generator subtle ways to relax (a dinner, a massage, a calm walk) or space and time to use as they truly enjoy.
5. Give Your Generator Something to Respond To
Generators need to respond, but they cannot do so without a question. Your Generator does not have initiating power, so you must be the one to initiate or create the opportunity. Go further and protect your Generator from trying to initiate by giving them many chances to have something to respond to. Don’t worry if your suggestions seem silly; Generators are guided by the Sacral and will know exactly which suggestion is right for both of you.
Ask your Generator if they want to go on vacation. If the answer is yes, you book the trip and watch your Generator handle all the necessary paperwork, pack the bags, and even choose the places you’ll visit.
As with any other Energy Type, it’s important to validate and appreciate the people we love. Generators are a special Type responsible for much of the magic that dances through the universe. A world with satisfied Generators is a happier and more united world. For this reason, it’s important to know how to love Generators as they deserve so their light can illuminate us all.
